Monday, December 8, 2008

Attraction Doesn't Always = Relationships

BUT...

Dig this. 

He is attracted to me. I am attracted to him.

He is affectionate. More than most. And he cares.

I care.

We haven't had sex yet and we have talked about it. And we aren't going to.

We have the best conversations EVER!

All of this, and it doesn't = a relationship.

Waste of time?

Or is it okay in this instance to be all of the above and still be friends? Your take?

2 comments:

NightFall914 said...

It will eventually lead to something.In truth a friendship is a relationship anyway, just minus the physical aspect.But you say "affectionate", that can have many meanings sooooo if it has become physical to some degree its basically a countdown to sex no matter what y'all may have agreed to.

Have a clear idea of what u want and make sure y'all both know what the others intentions are.

Don't lie to yourselves with the "we're just friends" stuff but you act like a couple.

DanniGyrl said...

You are absolutely right. It is critical that I "let go". 'Cause I don't want my emotions tied up like that. I can't afford for that to happen. Thanks for the reality check.